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Garden in full bloom in June
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My Colorado Garden Year Two 2009
One of the fun things of moving into a previously owned home is to see what discoveries you’ll make in Spring when the efforts of the previous gardener become evident peeking through the snow. However! this garden has absolutely not ONE flower, bush, bulb, nada but the two struggling fruit tree’s and a very nice drip system throughout the raised gardens. The good part was that I got to start playing from scratch.
I am one of those gardeners who really doesn’t follow all the rules of gardening. I like to buy things because they are pretty and plant them closer together than recommended because I’m impatient to have a nice full garden.. so of course last year with an empty palette of dirt to fill in, i bought TONS of perennials, bulbs and transplanted things from my X-husbands house that I’d lovingly planted and nurtured and I wasn’t going to leave them behind.
In this yard you can see spring blooming phlox, and Icelandic poppies in beautiful shades of
peach, white, apricot, orange and red. I planted these from seeds last year and never dreamed they’d come back and be so beautiful.. This year I’m digging them up and transplanting them in other spots in the garden since as I mentioned before.. I have a tendency to over crowd my flowers. You can also see Purple Coneflowers, Oriental Poppies (also grown from seed)Lupine (from the x’s house) . The old piece of fence is from a Colorado farm that I picked up at an estate sale it still has the original latch.. I just love old rusty stuff to decorate with. The wreath I wrapped myself from garden vines from last years yard cuttings. I’m all about recycling and going green whenever feasible. You can also see another of my favorites… Blue Flax.
Orange and Yellow Icelandic Poppies

Blue Flax Up Close
I just love how it looks waving wildly in the field all around the prairie. I find it’s harder to get to thrive in your cultivated garden than when you throw the seeds haphazardly.

Here you can see the Lupine leaves getting ready to grow huge gorgeous stalks of purple flowers (I have faith!) and to the right of them a variety of honeysuckle that hummingbirds love and so do my cats.. they know hummers hang out here, so they do too… just hoping for their big (FAT) chance to pounce.
Have high blood pressure? high calcium levels?
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photo credit: pasotraspaso
This is my two week post op report card, and it’s a good one!
The first week was rough, I’m sure just due to the effects that any surgery has on your system along with hormone and blood chemicals all flying up and down, but now at two weeks post op from my parathyroidectomy I am feeling MUCH better.The symptoms that were IMMEDIATELY fixed are:
- my blood pressure is now totally normal, all the time
- normal bladder control (pre-op I ALWAYS had to pee and could barely make it in time)
- bone and muscle pain GONE!
- I have lost 7 pounds (yeah!)
- digestion MUCH improved
- Sex Drive back… (double yeah!)
Still to go:
I am currently REALLY emotional, I didn’t have the mood swings when I was pre-op like some people do, but I am having them now… I’m thinking it has to do with the parathyroid having to adjust itself.
I still get a little shakey when I don’t get my calcium. I had an appointment with my Endocrinologist on Tuesday and he has me on 1000 milligrams of calcium 4x a day along with a prescription for Vitamin D that I take once a week. I am also scheduled for a bone density scan in two weeks to see how much damage has been done to my bones during this calcium leaching period of God only knows how long. After he looks at that and determines the results he’ll redo my levels.
I am musing that perhaps my weight gain over the last two years and onset of menopause symptoms including rapid weight gain for now apparent reason may have to do with the fact I read on my synthyroid medication I picked up yesterday. (I also have Hashimoto’s Thyroid Disease) It says not to take it with calcium… so I’m wondering if that was/is part of the reason for the weight gain (Hashimoto’s is hypo thyroid) is that the synthyroid couldn’t really do it’s job to help regulate my metabolism with my calcium levels being constantly so high in my blood stream. Only time will tell.
All in all the results of the parathyroidectomy are a huge success.
Read all my previous posts on this journey
Pt 5: 2 Days Post Operative
pt 4: Tomorrow is Surgery Day
pt 3: Consultation with the Surgeon
Definition :
“Parathyroidectomy“
Parathyroidectomy is surgery to remove parathyroid glands or parathyroid tumors. Parathyroidectomy is recommended when one or more parathyroid glands are producing excessive amounts of parathyroid hormone.
Humility – What’s your definition?
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I heard this quote once and it’s stuck with me… Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself… It’s thinking OF yourself LESS! (unknown)
It’s deep so say it to yourself a couple of times!
This just struck me as so true. Humbleness and humility is spoken of often in the bible but I think its one of those misinterpreted words. We all speak of Jesus as humble but He knew He was the son of God so it wasn’t that he thought less of Himself, he just thought of others first, what he could do for others, how he could help others, how he could change the lives of others. Being humble is a sign of strength not weakness and comes from a place of knowledge not ignorance.
There is also another similar quote and goes something like ” you’d worry less about what other’s think of you if you knew how little they think about you”. Most people in our society are much more obsessed with themselves and really don’t spend as much time analyzing us as we might think they do. We sometimes beat ourselves up about something we’ve done, something we’ve said and we let that story teller in our heads go on and on about it until we are afraid to show our face at work the next day when in reality no one else has been thinking about it at all.
What’s your favorite quote today? Why does it speak to you?
photo credit: André Banyai
How NOT to go to the ER after parathyroid surgery
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I woke up on day 3 post op and started having muscle cramps in my shoulder, leg, arm, my lips and finger tips were tingling… these were things my surgeon had told me to watch for. We called the surgeons office and he told me to see my regular doctor… so called my General Practitioner, not really understanding why since I haven’t seen my GP for weeks, but got in two hours later. On the ride in the car there the cramping started getting worse and worse, I was tingling and having muscle cramps & spasms all down the left side of my body and it started cramping my diaphragm which made it feel difficult to breathe. After explaining that my surgeon had said to watch for this my regular doctor didn’t know what to do, and didn’t have the ability to run lab results quickly, so she called 911 and had me go to the emergency room in an ambulance… At this point the cramping and numbness or “buzzy” feeling is getting worse and worse.. partly due to the low level of calcium in my body and the other due to me getting more and more upset and freaked about the cramping.. I got there and had to repeat everything once again to the ER staff that I’d told to the Hunky firemen that drove me to the hospital… uugggghhh..
I was sure I was having a stroke or a heart attack at this point, my fingers started cramping up like I had severe arthritis… and it felt like a huge weight was on my chest. All my vitals were normal but I was still having all these symptoms.
How to not have all of this happen? If you start feeling muscle cramps or numbness, eat another tums! Calcium with Vitamin D, etc… The surgeon should have told me that rather than just warning me to watch for these symptoms and then sending me to the doctor that was clueless. (not her fault, this isn’t her specialty and it was impressive that she caught the condition in the first place) When the doctor in the ER finally came into the room he said.. oh yeah… that’s common with this type of surgery, (Removal of an adenoma on your parathyroid gland) just take more calcium. Duh!
What’s really maddening was that I had that “womens intuition” that you’d think at this age I’d be wise enough to listen to and I thought when I first started having the muscle cramps… “I wonder if I should just take some more calcium” but I was afraid to over do the calcium and figured if it was that easy it would have been on my post op instructions.
Before the ER staff could get it together I closed my eyes and prayed… “God, help me“…. I started feeling large hands on my head, cradling it and the numbness and muscle cramping started lessening, starting at my diaphram the cramping diminished, the pressure lessened, and the tingling felt like it was being drawn out of my body to my head and out….. within 5 minutes I was almost none of the previous symptoms and just a touch of numbness in my lips and fingertips. Was it God? Did my body just re-regulate its hormone and calcium levels on it’s own? Next time… I plan on praying FIRST!
Pt 5: 2 Days Post Operative
pt 4: Tomorrow is Surgery Day
pt 3: Consultation with the Surgeon
pt 2: Appointment with the Endochronologist
pt 1: I thought it was just Menopause
Definition :
“Parathyroidectomy“
Parathyroidectomy is surgery to remove parathyroid glands or parathyroid tumors. Parathyroidectomy is recommended when one or more parathyroid glands are producing excessive amounts of parathyroid hormone.








